This thing people do where they compare some undesired event to being raped–unless said undesired event is actually you being subjected to forced sex, you need to quit making that analogy. No, having to do what your boss tells you to (except for unwanted sex with them) isn’t like being raped. No, being reprimanded for breaking some rule isn’t being raped. Paying a higher price than you’d like for something isn’t being raped. Having to fill out forms or go through some bureaucratic maze isn’t being raped. You know what is like being raped? Being raped.
Otherwise, no. The fact that your every moment isn’t a completely perfectly happy one where you get your heart’s desire is not the same as being sexually assaulted. Cut it the fuck out.
The Twisted Spinster 